Contract, originally referred to the parties or parties to a joint agreement on the transaction, mortgage, tenancy and other related instruments. The contract is also understood as "keeping a good faith". The form of contract can be divided into: spiritual contract and text contract. The object of the contract can be: business associates, friends, lovers, nations, the world, human beings, and contracts to themselves, and so on. What about contractual love between different types of people? Is it spiritual cooperation or a written agreement?
I heard the word before, it is this to say: "you owe others will always have a person to go back, others owe you, there will always be a person back to you, you do to someone, whether pay or damage, there will always be another person thanked or revenge, different time node, the life is cruel and affectionate, rude and promiscuous, in general are conserved. So under a contractual love of happiness or hurt, for you are not be hurt, or how to enjoy happiness for a long time, at most is that they help you grow better, just in such a growth, you will pay because of his unwilling and helpless some fresh dew Joan juice!
With the development of The Times, we to network with all kinds of feelings, the network will bring us different kinds of convenient, it will bring you happy I happy spirit pleasure and you are not happy I also not happy spirit lost. Since the beginning of the Internet chat mode, many people have begun to discuss the mode of chatting online, which brings us closer to each other or estranged from our emotions. So the various theories of hierarchy are common. The way of communication is human demand, and it is reasonable and reasonable for human beings, and it will not bring harm. As far as I'm concerned, the emotion for the network are mainly two kinds of view: one, for I trust relationship good friends for a long time, the network brought to me is the feelings of deep communication, because of the existence of the network brings me is deep reinforcement and condensation of the emotion; Second, to meet soon on the net friend, I'm just out of sincere communication well, for our each other, the network is occasionally express our each other to others or another, or can't give good friend friend says no heart, under the sincere communication poured into the bitter water that brings a kind of media to each other. Life is not easy, the network we build is like a contract. And in the contract of the two people how to normal communication is the premise of a "degree", but how to grasp, can only be "you standing on the bridge, looking at the landscape and scenery is watching you".
I think that online dating is like a kind of spiritual contract love that never exists between right and wrong, fair and unfair, and a lot of times it is fair.
Human always fear of injury, fear of having their own efforts can not get the corresponding returns, fear of having their own really be ruthless trample, so when we when dealing with a lot of things is always habitually henpecked, for we dare not, because we are afraid. In our subconscious mind we have an implicit avoidance of all risks. We always think that if we have good communication, you will be happy and I will not be hurt one another. Just forget, we are all human beings, a kind of blood and meat, a kind of mind and easy to place their feelings for other people's creatures, a kind of emotional assembly. In the course of the time of communication, we can not help the person who is no longer in the same direction for the one of our feelings, such as love. However, we do not know that this virtual space and time can be very good to vent our feelings, but we can not overstay. In the past, words can be ignored, not listened to, or even can be deleted, the eyes are not bored, straight when the old feeling is broken. No matter how many years it has been said, it can not be said that the person who has loved can change again, only when the old feeling is broken. Done, wrong, or what? Moon night if I feel very lonely, lonely night if there was a special miss, miss affair if there was a special remote, remote achievement is just a message, or we play back and forth between the word and then delete this stay, distant people have you ever looked up days, two people afraid of the dark lights are still in the home, want to see you in my mind when I'm afraid of the dark side, but you even did not have a message, the emotion is just based on our each other between some kind of mood, I would like to with you heart.
The most poignant love result is that you thank me for giving, and thank me for quitting. Since we can no longer keep you happy, you are not happy and I am not happy, then you want me to go, I will never turn back. The first thing we want to do is to give each other happiness, to leave a shadow of our hearts. We don't have any deep emotions, some are just a kind of spiritual sustenance. When each other no longer has the ability to produce its original effect, it is better to smile and let go, save memories for our once tacit understanding and happy, recall.
Emotional sometimes because a paper contract by contract bitter kidnapping with the man who used to bring each other happiness, sometimes because of the loss of spiritual make us cry, just we forget don't like a person just like like a person, like a paper bag on fire, cannot be hid. Instead of being forced to stay, learn not to be confused, not to be trapped. Do not fear the future, do not read the past. So, ok.