I am engaged a few days ago. We are in a relationship for 4 years, and we decided to marry and form a family. My fiancé is the best man in the world. I have everything with him. She has a good job, money, an apartment, belongs from a good and rich family and has everything that every woman would want. I was the happiest in the world when he decided to marry me. We are planning to have planty of children, because we want to have big family.
However, he also had a fiancé also before me, and he broke that relationship.
I never asked why this ended and why, and he did not want to talk about it. However, everything changed one day when she appeared at the door of our house. She wanted to talk to me. She told me how pregnant she was and how my fiancée's child was carrying!
She wanted me to know that, and to break my relationship because he cheated me with her. He also learned about the news, but said that he was notcheating me, and that he had no intention of recognizing a child other than his.
She is ready to do a DNA test, and to prove that she is telling the truth. I was shocked after talking to her, first of all because she said she was pregnant and she was ready to prove it, then she was pregnant with my future husband!
Is it possible that he cheated me with her, and he always told me how he loved me, how he was ready to live for me, and that he would love me forever, never to hurt me. I do not know what to do.
On the one hand, I want to find out the truth, but I'm afraid of the consequences. On the other hand, I do not want to leave a child without a father.
But who is asking here for my feelings? I need to get married and give birth to my children, I need to make a family with him. I want to think well, but I think I will let him to decide, and, as far as I can see, he does not want to have the child with her, and if that kid his child is, I do not want to break our relationship for some third person!