Is there anything more embarrassing than having somebody hand you a holiday gift when you have nothing in return for her? You do have a few, last-ditch effort attempts to get out of this doozy, but hopefully you just don’t find yourself there in the first place. The holidays are already in full swing. As it’s the beginning of December, any person you see this month—just for a coffee, a quick business meeting, a hangout, a date, or a children’s play date—may come bearing gifts. You need to be prepared. The truth is that you do appreciate so many people, but you just don’t think to add them to your shopping list. You probably think of the basics like your best friend, your parents, and your boyfriend or spouse. But if some of these forgotten individuals give you a gift, it will become painfully obvious that you should have reciprocated. Don’t forget to buy holiday gifts for these people.
Your in-laws
Get something for your partner’s in-laws because I can almost guarantee they’ll get something for you. Even if they don’t live in the same town as you, you can probably count on a gift basket showing up at your door or a gift card arriving in the mail. You want them to love you since you’re the woman their son has chosen to be with, so buy them something.
Your partner’s siblings
Don’t forget about your partner’s siblings. If you’ve been together for a long time and spend a lot of time with your partner’s family, then they consider you family at this point.
If your partner’s siblings are married or in serious relationships, then get them couples’ gifts. Only getting something for the sibling can make the partner feel left out.
Do you have an assistant? An intern? A social media strategist? Or perhaps a whole team of employees? Give them a little something—even if it’s a $15 gift card to a local coffee shop. They probably often go above and beyond the call of duty.
Your housekeeper
Your housekeeper works so hard, so don’t forget to show your appreciation this holiday season! A little pay bonus is just the perfect gift, as she’s probably struggling to buy her family presents right now.
Your dog walker/pet sitter
Do you have a reliable and wonderful dog walker or pet sitter? Someone who stops by several times a week, walks your fur baby, and does a few extra things like cuddle him, refresh his water, and play with him? Leave a small present for her, next time she stops by.
Your nieces/nephews
You once only had to remember your siblings, but now you must buy something for their kid’s, too. The relationship kids have with their aunt is very special, so honor that. Your sibling will really appreciate it, too.
Your best friend’s kids
If your best friends have kids, you may want to get them a little something, too. You don’t need to do this for acquaintances but your true BFF’s kid should get a small present. You are, in a way, an auntie to that child.
That neighbor who helps you out
Do you have a neighbor who regularly receives packages for you if you aren’t home, lets a guest in for you when you can’t, and does other little favors for you throughout each year? Show her your gratitude with some chocolates, a bottle of wine, or something small.
Anyone who will be at the meal
If you are attending someone else’s family holiday meal—like your boyfriend’s family—get a guest list. Who will be there? If it’s a huge thing, then you aren’t expected to treat everybody. But if it’s mostly the close family, you should come with a little something for everyone.
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Your godchildren
Are you a godparent? Did you agree to this important role? Then that means one of your duties is buying your godchild presents around the holidays.
Your child’s best friend’s mom
Maybe you aren’t friends with your kid’s best friend’s mom, but that woman hosts your child a lot. Your kid is always over there, eating her food, making messes, and enjoying free childcare. Give that mother a little something to show her you recognize all she does for your kid.
Your boss
Don’t forget your boss! She has more money than you, naturally, so this gift doesn’t have to be large. But a little box of chocolate or nice flowers will do the trick.
Cherished clients
If you have your own business, then make sure your best clients get a little present. They keep you in business all year long, and that’s something to be grateful for.
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Yourself
Hey, why should you be left out? You deserve a spa day, that designer purse, or a really nice dinner at that place you typically wouldn’t go.
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